Merry Christmas

We just wanted to wish everyone a very Merry Christmas! We are so blessed to be able to spend the next few days with all of our family. We know we can't be with everyone, so we also wanted to wish those that aren't here with us to have the best Christmas and know that we are thinking about you and you are truly missed! We love this time of year and the opportunity we have to remember the true meaning of Christmas! Dax may be absorbed with "Santa" but Austin and I have enjoyed reading and reflecting on the birth of our Savior. It's crazy to think little Wyatt will be joining our family in just a few short weeks and that his birth will result in a miracle of our own. I am a total slacker and didn't send Christmas cards this year, but I figure with birth announcements next month I had a pretty good excuse. In an attempt to be good spirited, here is a make shift version of a family holiday picture (not a look I love, but oh well) that is soon to be happily outdated! Merry Christmas!

"1st Time Mom" lesson learned

We have been bribing Dax to go and see Santa if he sleeps in his new bed. It hasn't been working so well and he hasn't really got the concept of staying in bed, but he can't get it out of his head to "See Santa" because I talk to him about 5 trillion times a day. Even after telling him we can't go see Santa unless he sleeps in his big boy bed, which hasn't happened a full night through yet, what else do we do the first chance we get? Take him to go see Santa. So, my 1st time mommy lesson learned (related to bribing; we all know this isn't the 1st lesson learned) is never to bribe your kids with something you really do want them to have/experience. Make it something you really could care less about taking away, okay? (I'm reminding myself of the rules!)

Alright, enough Life Lessons for now....On to the meet and greet with Santa. I was picturing Disneyland all over again, but surprisingly it went pretty well.

Here is the order of events:

* We wait in line

* Dax is super excited as we approached the front

* Austin puts Dax down to run onto Santa's lap when it's his turn

* Dax cries for Austin to hold him

* Dax not looking at Santa

* Santa mentions a train for Christmas and that grabs Dax's attention enough for a glance at Jolly Ol' St. Nick

*Austin puts Dax right onto Santa's lap for the photo op

* Dax not loving being on Santa's lap... *...but, at the same time, Dax not hating being on his lap either

*Camera Elf gets a semi non-crying picture of Dax and Santa. But really, what kind of picture of Santa is there with a two year old that doesn't have a little tear shed??

*Wait for our picture to print. Dax thinks him and Santa are BFF's now that he is back in Austin's arms and waves and says "Bye Santa" with a big huge grin

*Dax happy to be back in his stroller with his chocolate covered popcorn (thanks Carter) and new book from Santa.

Overall, not bad!! I just need to work on my bribing technique!

Christmas Party x 2

'Tis the season!! I love Christmas time, and this weekend is a little reason why. We had holiday fun all weekend long with friends, work, family and of course food! Friday we headed off to an adult Christmas party with Austin's work. It was a great chance to leave Dax with Grandma and Grandpa Mac for a few hours and have some fun. The physical therapy office Austin works at is a small, tight-knit group that has been together for 5 years. Austin just joined them in July and they have taken him in like one of the family. There are basically only 4 other employees and they really are like a family. They always do such fun things in his office and I was really looking forward to seeing the spouses again. We started off at the Cheesecake Factory for dinner---yum! Then we went to his boss's house (which is absolutely beautiful) and had a gift exchange and played games to win some prizes. To make a long, super fun night short, I walked off with a brand new smoothie maker/blender/(& my favorite part) FOOD PROCESSOR! I really felt like I won the ultimate prize, even though they gave away the new 80gig video iPod. I am such a kitchen accessories lover, but I never buy any of that fun stuff. So it was really fun for us to take this home. It looks so pretty in my kitchen! Thank you Marc and Michelle!

On Saturday we went to Austin's parents for their annual family Christmas party that we've only ever been able to get to once before. The party is usually in CA, but now that his parents live out here, we can make it ever year from now on! So, I was really looking forward to it. I was asked to bring a broccoli cheese soup and I finally found a recipe that turned out super yummy! I thought it tasted great, but then again maybe I was just overly excited because i chopped the onion in my new food processor?! Either way, there were great soups and great desserts. The most anticipated activity of the night is the gift exchange, because with Austin's family, you never quite know how that is going to go. This year there was a kid game and an adult game. For the kid game they kids choose a number corresponding with a numbered present and they went youngest to oldest, making Dax the second one to get a gift. Here's a little preview of how it all happened...

"Here I am waiting with all the kids for my turn to open my much anticipated present! What will it be?"

"Yes! I scored! A new basketball!! I'm having so much fun!"

"What? They didn't tell me this?" At the end of the game all the kids had the option of exchanging gifts and my big cousin Chandler decides to exchange my basketball for his lame DVD about 150 cartoons from decades ago. "I was so not happy about that!"

So, fast forward to the adult game. Dax is still upset he lost his basketball, and even though I okayed the exchange from his big cousin ('cause who really needs ANOTHER ball in the house?) I was feeling pretty crappy Dax was so hurt by it. I mean look at his face! So, the adult game went a little differently. We all choose a number 1 to 21 and started at 21. The person had to pick a wrapped gift or an opened gift to steal. The gift could only be stolen once during each round. I was number 11 and choose a pretty box full of Dentyne Ice! Awesome!! Considering some of the gifts were pretty ridiculous, I was feeling like I really scored. That is until the final round when crap hit the fan. Austin's family is pretty ruthless and no feelings are spared. You have to be tough! My big bad brother-in-law comes and swipes my gum, for no reason at all. Now it's my turn to steal from someone else. My poor sister-in-law got a hideous hydraulic raising, reindeer singing, grandma riding car that plays "Grandma got Ran Over by a Reindeer" and who has been camped out by her side all night long playing with the stupid thing?? Just my son! He loved it. I decide to "steal" it from her. She gets to choose and new gift (some nice slippers), Dax is ecstatic he gets to take "grandma" home, and I'm shaking my head at the stupid things you do as a mom sometimes. But really, it made Dax so happy, isn't that what being a mom is all about it?!? I was just trying to spread Christmas cheer...who knew 48 hours later I would be ready to throw the thing out with the trash if I heard that song one more time!!!

Merry Christmas to all!!

Happy Birthday Daxton!!

Dax turned 2 on Saturday! I can't believe it was two years ago that he joined our family. He has filled our lives with so much joy and brought so much to our family. He is such a good boy and makes me laugh everyday! The past week leading up to the party was a little stressful, with him deciding to no longer wanting to sleep in a crib, having a cold, and having a minor mouth trauma. But overall, the party was a great success!!!

We had a great Pirate birthday party with family, friends, and neighbors and even though we had to switch locations from the park to our house at the last minute due to rain, we had a great day!! The kids played in the bounce house, had a bean bag toss, ate a yummy cupcake cake, and went on a treasure hunt complete with "walking the plank". It seemed like everyone had a great time, parents included, and there was a great turn out to help Dax celebrate turning 2. Just as the kids discovered the treasure chest, it started to rain, so we all moved inside and helped Dax open presents. He received so many fun gifts from everyone! We could get away without giving him one thing for Christmas and I don't even think he would notice. Thanks everyone for being a part of Dax's special day!!

Dax waiting for all his friends

Walking the plank

Dax handing out swords to everyone after they walked across the plank The buried treasure

Singing "Happy Birthday"
Funny story: When everyone gathered around to sing Dax happy birthday, I put him on the table behind his cake and we lit the candles. Everyone was in the room and we all started singing. Dax sat there, like a statue and didn't move. He didn't smile, he didn't laugh, he didn't cry. He just sat there stone cold. I don't think he knew what to think with all those people looking at him and everyone singing "Happy Birthday". He knew exactly what to do with the burning candles because he had been playing with them earlier in the day, but when it was time to blow them out, he froze! He looked like he was about to fall asleep. With a little coaxing, and some help from me, we finally blew them out!

Opening presents

I couldn't help reminiscing a little bit. This is probably more for my benefit than yours, but here's a look back at Dax the day he was born and last year turning one!!

What does Santa say?

Dax loves to plug in the Christmas tree lights. Last night he took a particular interest in the ornaments on the tree. So I sat down while he took the ornaments on and off the bottom branches and rearranged them. Good, pretty safe, quality entertainment, which means some down time for me. I was telling him Christmas stories and this and that, and told him Santa says "Ho! Ho! Ho!" He obviously wasn't hearing me right. This is his interpretation of what Santa says...

HO!

HO!

HA!

And while we're on the topic of Christmas... it's totally ruined! Dax quickly went from sleeping like a baby in his crib to climbing out non stop. We made an emergency trip to buy him a new bed on Monday. As I went to return my sisters Expedition, Austin busily moved the crib to make room for the new bed. I was half way to my sisters when I remembered just a few days before moving ALL of Austin's Christmas presents from the spare bedroom thinking he might find them to where else? Under Dax's crib! AHHHH! I called him as fast as I could but it was too late. Christmas was ruined! He saw everything! I was so sad. I'm going to have to come up with a few surprises for him on Christmas morning, but in the meantime help me figure out some sure places his presents won't be discovered!!! Where do you hide yours??

The Long Lost Sister

This past week my wonderful twin Jamie came to AZ with her adorable little girls. Sadly, she is the only one of us 5 girls that doesn't live within the 5 mile radius. We were so so glad to have her for a week! She is the best twin anyone could ask for and I miss her so much! Can you believe she left without us even getting one picture together? What is wrong with us? These are very precious moments that we have together and not one of us, all my other sisters included, managed to get a picture of us all together. We should know better when this happens only but twice a year.

But, we did have a lot of fun and spent some wonderful time together. Shopping is always involved, but we went to the Tempe Art Festival, out to eat a few times, took a tamale cooking class and had a very fun night with the family doing a progressive dinner. Here's how the fun night went, and will hopefully become a tradition!!!

My mom thought it would be fun to have a progressive dinner with Jamie here to visit all our houses and see them decorated and just to enjoy each other's company. Even with 4 of the 5 girls and my parents living so close, it's not too often that we get together as an entire family, so this was a great way to start off the Holiday season. We started at my house where I served up the appetizers. I made yummy meatballs, a dip, and a new recipe I tried called chicken taco cups. I'm always nervous to serve something new, even if it is just for my family, but everyone enjoyed everything and wanted all the recipes so I count that as a success! I had so much fun getting my house ready and playing hostess. I kinda love being a "party planner" so it is always fun for me to let my creative juices flow. We also decided to give little gifts at each house as a thank you for coming. I sent everyone home with a new cookie sheet and some sugar cookies to make.

Next we were off to my sister Shanen's house. She has a great new house that looked so nice decorated and she served the good ol' yummy green salad. If you know any of us girls in my family, a green salad with ranch dressing is always a staple. No matter what time of day or year, a green salad is always super appreciated! For her gift she gave all of us a magnet recipe holder with a recipe for chocolate dipped double stuffed Oreos! Now if that doesn't make your mouth water I don't know what does!! And the best part...she made them for us too! I have to tell you, these are the yummiest little things ever. Austin loves Oreo's and I knew he would think these were the greatest thing since sliced bread, but being the pregnant heifer that I am, I hid them in the back of the fridge so he wouldn't discover them so I could enjoy them quietly by myself when he is gone at school. Hee Hee!! And by the time he reads this, they will be all gone! :)

After Shanen's house we stopped for the main course at my parents. They served us excellent enchiladas complete with rice and guacamole. I always love being at my parents at the holidays. The house is so much fun. My dad has a train set that he has had since he was a kid and he just found out that it is close to 60 years old. The kids LOVED it and my dad was so calm letting all of them stand over the track to be a tunnel. With 6 of the 11 grand kids being under 3, this was a mini heart attack waiting to happen but my dad was a great conductor as everyone took their turn! We had a great time and my mom sent the girls home with a wonderful jar full of ornaments, books, Christmas stories and goodies.

After my parents we went to Nicole's where she and Jamie had a fun craft for all the kids. I wish I had a picture because they turned out sooo cute. They painted the kids thumbs with a red paint and then pressed them onto white mugs and made little reindeer's out of them. The mugs came with a cute story and food to sprinkle on our lawns so that the reindeer can find our house on Christmas Eve. They were so cute! Nicole and Jamie sent us off with a cute plate for us to put cookies on for Santa.

Lastly, we headed to Jennifer's house. She had great desserts and her house looked so festive. Each of her three children have their own small Christmas tree that they get to decorate with any of their ornaments and I loved seeing them clustered together. I thought it was such a cute tradition for the kids and may need to steal it from her for my own one day. She had great treats with brownies and a peppermint ice cream/Oreo dessert. They were all so good! She gave us all a fun Christmas picture frame.

All in all the night couldn't have been more fun! I was so glad to have a hearty appetite (what else is new?) and loved being at every one's house. I love that we have such a great family and relationship with each other and can do such nice things together. I think we should have a progressive dinner with each major holiday because it was a great way to spend some time as a family. At the beginning of the night we took the best pictures we could of the grnadkids! I can't believe that it will be out dated in just a few weeks when our little guy arrives!! From left to right: Taylor L., Cole L., Kylee H., Ally L., Kobi H., Gabriella C., Dylan B., Kruz H., Dax M., Gwyneth C., & Isaac B.

Where's Waldo??

You all know the book Where's Waldo, right? The one where there are two pages of a crazy picture, whether Waldo's at an airport, zoo or mall, and you have to find the little funny man in a red and white stripped shirt with jeans on in all the chaos? It was one of my favorite's growing up. I never knew that scenario would happen in my house...with my child! Maybe a pet hamster (if we even had one) or something like that, but not an actually human being, and not actually in my house. So here's what happened....

It was the day after Thanksgiving around 10:30 and I had just gotten back from shopping with all the crazies since around 3:30 in the morning. It had already been a long day and it wasn't even lunch, but it had already been a long week with the trip to the hospital, Thanksgiving, and family in town (I'm trying to paint a sob story picture so this won't be as embarrassing). So anyway, the house was a pig sty and I was trying to get things back in it's place. Dax was playing outside in the back, the washer and dryer were going and I was busy in the kitchen with a sink full of dishes.

I'm not sure if this is true for all first borns, but Dax does a really good job of playing by himself and keeping himself entertained, but always in the same room as me. If I wander into my bathroom, so does he, if I'm in the kitchen, that's where he is at, if I'm folding laundry in the living room, that's where he has all his trucks. He's always close by. It's a good thing. I never have to worry where he has run off too or what he's getting into because he's always in the vicinity.

With the way our kitchen is set up, my back is to the sliding door. I saw Dax out of the corner of my eye coming running in from outside headed to the living room. This is usual, he was probably just grabbing a ball or coming to get his cup. With the lack of sleep, and the noise of running water and the laundry I honestly forgot about him for a few minutes. Then I realized I didn't see him come running back through the kitchen. I turned off the sink water and started calling his name. I headed down the hall to the bed rooms and our office where our computers are (usually a sure spot to find him) with no luck. I ran past the living room to my bathroom where sometimes he plays in my closet...no luck. Then I remember the garage door was opened and I didn't have the chime on the door to know if he had gone outside. I kinda started panicking and I went back past the living room to look in the garage...no luck. I was almost in frantic mode even though it had probably been less than 3 minutes since this whole ordeal had taken place. That's when I spotted him, in the same room I had ran past at least 4 times during this whole episode. So, see if you can find him. Where's Dax??

It's probably so obvious to you, but he has never done this before and wasn't making a peep. I couldn't believe that I didn't see him all those times! I snuck up on him and he had the biggest grin on his face. I knew he thought he had pulled off the biggest prank and was so happy with himself. I think he thought of himself as the bestest little Houdini in town!

Note to self: Next time I lose my son in the house, check the couch behind the pillows!

Family Pictures

With the way last week started, I'm surprised we even made it to Thanksgiving, but I am so glad we did! We had a great weekend filled with lots of food, family and fun! We were lucky enough to eat great turkey dinners with both families! We are so blessed to live by both of our parents. Austin's entire family was in town from Utah and California and the last time everyone was together was probably for Austin and mine wedding 6 years ago (we also celebrated our anniversary this weekend---hooray!). With his family being so big, it's hard to get everyone together, and with all the additions that have come since the last 6 years, we were well overdue for some MacGillivray family photos. I was partially in charge of finding a location that would accommodate our every growing family of 38 kids and grandkids. What a chore! At last, we headed to a neighboring community and found a great little area on a golf course. Of course, there was a complaining Samaritan who called the little golf Marshall man on us and he came and gave us about 10 minutes to wrap up. I wish we would have had a lot more time, but I think overall, everyone got the shots they wanted and everyone looked great!! Here are a few of them minus the big group shot, well, because I was in it!

Grandma and Grandpa with all the grandkids. This is the best shot I took of the kids, but then I noticed that my guy was the one making a huge scene---check bottom left. Thanks Ryan for trying to control him!

The "true" MacGillivray family. From left to right--- Misti, Miki, Lani, Mel, mom & dad, Dustin, Monte & Austin. Aren't they such a good looking bunch?!

Our little family. Dax was working his "cheese" smile, but had a little difficulty actually working the camera! Gotta love two year olds!

I'm thankful for.....

My husband! These last few days have been a little crazy to say the least. It all started Sunday night when Dax woke up crying at about 1 o'clock in the morning. He hasn't done this since we moved into the house and before that since he was about 3 months old. I thought he must have just gotten woken up by something and figured bringing him into bed with us wouldn't be a big deal and he'd be back asleep in no time. I was dead wrong! The child was up until sometime between 4 and 5 in the morning. He was wide awake and ready to play! I had no idea what was going on, but needless to say, no one got any sleep.

Well, when I officially woke up on Monday morning at 6:00 to start work I wasn't feeling great. Figuring it was a combination of being 31 weeks pregnant and getting little sleep I started work. Luckily for me working from home has a lot of perks, and my office just so happens to have a queen size bed right next to my desk. I decided to lay down. I wasn't feeling right but couldn't pinpoint what I was feeling. I decided to leave Dax home with me for the day figuring he'd be a beast with the amount of sleep he had gotten too. By about 9:00 I decided that the best way to describe what I was feeling was cramping. I had just had a Dr's appointment a week or so ago and I remember how the Dr. always asks if I have had any bleeding or cramping. So, I figured I better call the Dr. My Dr. wasn't in, but the Dr. that was said I better go to Labor and Delivery. When I heard that I started to second guess what I was really feeling and thought maybe it was just the exhaustion. When I found myself taking deep breaths through the shooting pain, I realized I was definitely having contractions. Everyone always said when I was pregnant with Dax that I would definitely know when I was having contractions. Since I don't think I ever really had any contractions with him until my water broke, it was hard to convince myself that this was really what was happening.

I called my mom hysterical. She said to get someone to come get Dax and she would drive me to the hospital. My father-in-law was over in less than 5 minutes (the joys of having family so close by) and my mom a few minutes later and we were off to the hospital. What was so ironic was Austin and I took a tour of the new hospital that opened in Sept. where I will be delivering at and pre-registered just this last Saturday. If we hadn't had gone, I would have had no idea where the hosiptal was or where Labor and Delivery was. When we got there I knew right where to go and I was back in a triage room so fast!! It's funny how listening to those promptings of doing things insignifcant can really benefit you even if you don't know the reason right then. The nurses got me all hooked and lo and behold I was having contractions. The great news was, the baby was fine, wasn't in distress at all and everything was exactly how it should be. They can't really tell you why contractions start, but just to stay hydrated and take it easy. I hadn't felt like I was doing anything out of the ordinary, but maybe I was and just didn't know. I guess it was a sublte, and really scary reminder, to slow down. They kept me hooked up for a few hours and my Dr. ordered a series of 3 shots to stop the contractions. Luckily it only took two. The medicine they gave me made my heart race, and feel really jittery, not to mention nauseated, but the pain almost all but went away. They discharged me with Dr. orders for two days of bed rest. YUCK! No doing dishes, laundry, cooking, heavy lifting (including picking Dax up) and no shopping (the nurse amde very sure she thre that in there with her list).

So, the reason I am thankful this holiday season for my husband is the way he has wore so many hats the last few days. He's worked 12 hours days, studied for tests, gone grocery shopping, taken care of Dax, fixed dinner, cleaned the house, done laundry, laid 1800 sq. feet of sod in our backyard (pictures will be coming), made beds, unloaded the dishwasher, cleaned bathrooms and hasn't even let me lift a finger. He's been the perfect "nurse" for this couch ridden patient and I am so thankful for him. In fact, our entire family has really been so great! Austin's family kept Dax all day for me yesterday despite trying to prepare for over 15 house guests and 48 for Thanksgiving dinner, my mom sat at the hospital with me despite her preparation for Thanksgiving dinner, plus brought me and Dax to her house this afternoon to help with him and get me out of my danger zone so I couldn't do any chores around the house, all of my sisters have checked on me numerous times throughout the day offering to come get Dax, and my sister Nicole brought us the yummiest dinner tonight so neither one of us would have to cook. I can easily say this Thanksgiving I am so thankful for my family!! We couldn't be more blessed to have them so near and for them to show their love to us in so many ways!!

Hair today, gone tomorrow

Have you ever had one of those moments you regret the second it happens??? I have. And it has to do with hair. In my entire life I have never cut any one's hair, not even my own when I was a little girl. Not bangs, not a straight trim across the back, nothing. Whatever possessed Austin to entrust me with clippers and let me near his head, I will never know. After we got married he bought himself a pair of clippers. This was the first time I had even seen a set of clippers. Usually he would cut everything the way he liked, then hand me the prepped clippers and I'd go over his head just to see if he missed any spots, hand them back, then he would take the clip off, hand them back to me, and I would trim around his ears and neck. This went flawlessly about two times. Then it happened. He was shaving his head in the bathroom a few weeks after Dax was born and asked for me to come do my famous finishing work. He handed me the clippers like he always had in the past and I started from the nape of his neck and did one smooth upper movement towards the top of his head, just to make sure he had gotten every spot. It was all over by the time I what had happened. Instead of the clippers with the clip on, he had already taken off the clip and was expecting me just to clean up his neck and ears. The man had a total bald strip through the back of his head. I have never, ever, been so scared in my life. He had a cow and I stood there crying not knowing what to do. I mean honestly, what could I do? There was no going back. You couldn't leave his head looking like it did. Everything had to go. He didn't say anything, took the clippers from me and proceeded to bic all of his hair. I was horrified. If you look back through our pictures, there aren't any of him with Dax for a good few weeks until his hair got back to a decent length. Luckily for us, his hair does grow fast and he has a nice shaped head. I'm so sorry honey! It still gives me chills to re-live that experience.

Dax has that same fear of clippers. He can't stand to get his hair cut. With family pictures coming up, I couldn't put getting his hair cut any longer. I decided to take him to Snip-Its where at least they specialize in cutting kids' hair and when he did have his melt-down, which I knew he would, at least it would be in a kid friendly salon where it happens every day. We got to the salon and waited over a 1/2 hour and when Dax got called back the nice lady stuck Dax in his seat and asked "Will he try and climb out?" Uh, yeah. So we strapped him in just like you would in a shopping cart. It was torture from the very beginning. He kept staying "All done" "Ouie ouie ouie" "I stuck" over and over again. Bubbles weren't a distraction, the TV was no good, the Dum-Dum only sat in his hand and got hair stuck to it....miserable! But, the girl did a really good job and was super fast and I got out of there spending $10 thanks to a coupon and one handsome looking little guy!

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To make myself feel better for putting him through all that I decided I would stop by McDonald's on the way home and get him a happy meal. I guess he was just as dramatized from the whole experience as I was because when I pulled in, he was completely zonked out in the back seat. Poor little guy didn't even get to work his new 'do for all the little ladies in the play area!

Two is better than One!!

I had my last monthly visit with my Dr. today and I am already down to two-week visits! I'm 30 weeks! It's crazy! I'm in the home stretch and I can hardly believe it. We had a quick ultra sound to check on a few things that we weren't able to get a good look at when we found out it was a boy, and by quick I mean, I couldn't even recognize what we were looking at. The Dr. even asked what the baby was, so you know it was all business. We're still assuming it's a boy and we're still shooting for a January 20th due date.
I was so lucky when I was pregnant with Dax and Austin was able to make it to every single one of my appointments. This time around I haven't been so lucky, but he made it today. The Dr. was shocked when Austin told him that Dax was 8lbs. 15oz. and said he definitely wouldn't let me go over with this baby. To most pregnant women, that probably sounds like heaven bells, but for me, I have always felt better towards the end of my pregnancies than any other time. I kinda have this fear about being induced. I just want the little baby to come whenever they are ready and don't want to mess with mother nature. I guess we still have lots of time to think about that!! I am measuring a little on the small side, but between Thanksgiving and Christmas I think I can change that real easy---and I'm really excited to try!! Hence, two Thanksgiving dinners.
Okay, now that I'm done fooling everyone sounding cool and collected...I'm actually freaking out over here! In about 2 months there will be two! TWO! TWO kids! TWO boys!! I will totally be out numbered and Dax keeps me on my toes as it is! (By the way, the word of the week isn't NO anymore, it's "No Way!!") What the heck? How do I know who I load in the car first while leaving the other unattended?? Who do I go to first if they are both crying? How do I make sure Dax loves his brother and doesn't try to smoother him...literally?? How do I stay sane with no sleep and running after a two year old! How will Dax know that he hasn't been replaced? I know it's a little late to be worrying about these things, but any helpful hints would be super appreciated!
However, with all those fears, I couldn't be more thrilled to be adding another one to our little family. Dax has been the greatest joy in my life, and to know another little guy is going to come be with us makes me so happy. I love that I will have two boys to cuddle, to hold hands with, to dress in coordination (because "girls match and boys coordinate", right Jamie?), to watch them rough house, to play cars and trucks with, and everything else I love so much. I think who ever thought of the saying "Two is better than one" was definitely a mother of two boys because I couldn't agree more!!!

Three for the Bee Movie

Well, we finally did it. We took Dax to his first motion picture. I guess technically it's not his first, he was present for a few a couple Christmases back when he was just a little bitty guy, but this was his first children's animated motion picture. I was pretty sure he would be able to watch a full length movie because he can watch TV with the best of them. Austin had had a crazy long week, and I have been "nesting" I suppose so Dax and I had spent most of the week around the house cleaning, rearranging and organizing so I felt we all needed a treat on Friday since Austin gets through with work around 2 in the afternoon.
We woke Dax up from his nap at 3:45 because we were aiming for the 4:00 showing of The Bee Movie. We hurried and got to the theater, and to my surprise Dax was free. Children under three are free...YIPPEE! Something I'm sure all of you knew, but I didn't and was happy to pass the $5.50 on to a bag of yummy, oh so buttery, popcorn!! Double YUM!
We grabbed a booster seat on the way into the theater and we walked in just as the final preview was playing. It was dark, loud and the screen was looking huge as we tried to find a seat. Austin was holding Dax and his face was completely panicked. He looked back over his shoulder towards the door and told Austin, "Go"! I was sure we had made a huge mistake thinking he wouldn't be terrified and to have woken him up from his nap to boot. We grabbed a seat anyways towards the top of the theater and with Dax's death grip on Austin he wanted nothing to do with the booster seat. He panicked a little more as a few credits rolled through to start the movie and was whining for us to go. As the first clip came up of the bee, he suddenly became completely still and totally mesmerized. He basically stayed that way the entire show, eyes glued to the screen. He barely made a peep. Probably four words the entire movie. He didn't even noticed the popcorn I was chowing down on or the soda Austin was chugging (two of his favorite things).
As for the movie, Austin and I could have definitely gone without. Not one of the best, but we knew it was a success when Dax gave a standing ovation as the screen went black. MacGillivray family date night at the movies will definitely happen again!

NO! NO! NO!

Those are the first words I heard from my almost two year old from the moment he got up this morning to his last words he said when I laid him down for bed and said "I love you". And a good 3,146 times in between. All in all a pretty good day! How 'bout you? Maybe tomorrow I'll have something a little more adorable! :)

Happy Halloween

A dollar well spent!

If there is one thing I have learned about an infant/toddler, it is that shopping and running errands can be a total nightmare. I'm sure anyone with kids would agree. How you can do it with two or more is beyond me. In my short time as being a mom, and especially now that Dax is completely against the cart and very vocal about what he wants (i.e "I want down!", "All done!", "I wanna walk!" and so forth) I have started to become very creative when packing my purse for a trip to the supermarket, mall, JoAnns, road trips and anywhere we need a stroller. Well, the same ol' snacks and toys don't quite have the entertaining effect they once did and I find that he does a lot better if I buy him something new. You can imagine how expensive that can get. So, I have limited myself on those days to spending only $1 on a bribing technique, and I gotta to tell you...it has saved my behind...and my wallet! I made a little list of all those dollars well spent that has kept Dax the little Prince Charming that he is and my shopping experience a lot more successful!!!

$1 Popcorn- Target is always on the list of places that I can be at for hours and hours. One day I bought the popcorn and drink combo for .99 cents and we shopped for almost two, yes, TWO hours! Dax didn't spill the popcorn, throw it, or grab anything with buttery fingers. He barely made a peep. I don't even think I spent more than 20$ on that trip, I just couldn't get myself to leave because he was being so good and he was barely half way through the bag of popcorn!

$1 Chap Stick- Who knew giving a kid a tube of chap stick could entertain him half way to Seattle? I learned to turn to tube low and showed him how to "apply it" (Austin is so proud!)Now he pretends to put it on everyone in the room, flight attendants and all!

$1 Balloon- I don't know about you, but Dax LOVES balloons. I joke that for his birthday we could fill a room up with balloons and call it a party. He loves them and when we are anywhere that has them I almost always buy him one because he is it makes him so happy.

$1 Hot Dog- This one costs a tiny bit more, but the hot dog and soda combo at Costco is the best $1.50 ever. I always feel geeky walking in the exit door straight to the food stand, but the hot dogs are huge and I just hand it over to Dax and he thinks he is in hot dog heaven!!

$1 Hot Wheels- I can say that girls love this too! Driving a new car along a cart handle or on the tray of your stroller is really magical for my little guy. It works every time!

$1 Spray Bottle- This summer when ever we tried to go to soccer games or anywhere outside that was blistering hot, I brought along a squirt bottles I bout on a whim at Walgreens one day. Dax adopted that thing and thought it was such a great time to spray himself and everyone else around. The great thing was we didn't mind!

$1 Baby Pumpkins- I grabbed one of these for Dax at the beginning of the month on our way into the grocery store and he called it his baby the entire trip. It was a cute little white one and he loved it. Every time we've been to the store the month I've gotten him one, (they are like 30 to 50 cents) and he has been so content in his cart. Now they are cute center pieces on my table!

Now I need your help! This isn't the longest list and I need some more ideas! What do you do for your kids when you are out running around that is cheap and full of entertainment?? And how the heck do you keep more than one child entertained??

Back to the 50's

Austin and I have been married for close to 6 years now and still I realize pretty frequently that there is A LOT of things that we have never done together. This weekend, we were able to do one of those things, and it was dress up for Halloween and go to a party!! we waited until the last second to decide if we were going to go or not because 1) the party started at 9:00 and my bedtime is pretty close to 9:15 and 2) we had NO clue what to go as. My whole life my Halloween costumes consisted of making a costume out of what we had and adding an accessory and calling it a "costume". For example, one year I went as a cook and wore my Brownie girl scout t-shirt, a long brown skirt, got a great big mixing bowl and wooden spoon from the kitchen and wore a cook's hat (that was my Halloween accessory). Pretty generic, but I didn't really enjoy dressing up too much... I definitely inherited that from my mom. All the same, I still really really enjoy Halloween. Austin and I both wanted to go to this party, so we thought we'd keep it simple and go as a 50's couple. I know it sounds boring and every girl has been a 50's girl one time in her life, but regardless, we had so much fun getting ready. Thanks to my sister Jennifer I squeezed my big belly into an elastic (thank goodness) 50's skirt she had made for my niece a few years ago, curled my hair, wrapped it in a scarf in a high pony tail and Austin borrowed his dad's college leatherman's jacket and rolled up his jeans and greased his hair and we headed down the street to our friends. It was a blast!

The theme for the night was Let's Make a Deal, so all the couples there had stuffed their pockets full of random things to try and win some prizes. There were about 20 couples there and the costumes were a riot. Well, the game started and "Monty Hall" dressed as King Triton hosted the show. On the real Let's Make a Deal, people walk away with great gifts, or beans, literally. Tonight, every gift was a great gift. This couple went all out. They were giving away Cold Stone gift cards, $50 iTunes cards, $100 P.F Changs gift certificates and two people walked away with the brand new iPod shuffle! Are you kidding me?!?! The final prize was a week stay at the couples house in Veil Colorado! It was so fun and this sweet couple did an amazing job hosting a decorating. We didn't win anything, (if only Austin would have had that nail file they were asking for!) but we had so much fun meeting new people in the neighborhood and ward. This was definitely the way for Austin and I to do one of those many things we have never done before. It will be a Halloween party never to be forgotten!

Schnepf Farms

My goal for October was to do something Halloween-y or festive every week this month before Halloween to try and get into the spirit and have some family fun. Between Dax and I being in Seattle for a long weekend, Austin taking a quick trip to Utah, plus work, school, Church and everything else, well, now that Halloween is almost here, I realize that we didn't do so great at meeting that goal. The good news is I think we made up for it this weekend! The highlight was our trip to Schnepf Farms yesterday. Austin hadn't been able to enjoy Dax at a pumpkin patch and a huge farm in Queen Creek seemed like the place to go to get the true "Pumpkin Patch" experience. Lots of family and friends had been before and said it was kinda pricey and not worth it and they weren't sure how much there would be for Dax to do. Well, we decided to go anyway and experience it for ourselves. Austin's parents came along and we half-dressed Dax up in his pirate costume and headed out first thing Saturday morning. I kinda felt like we were going to an amusement park rather than a good ol' pumpkin patch by the price of the tickets, the way the parking lot was set up for thousands of cars and the line we ran into to get inside the farm. I wasn't sure what we were in for, but gladly we were not the least bit disappointed!

There was sooo much for Dax to do! We ran from one place to the next, hitting the carousel, pony ride, petting barn, Hillybilly Bob's Pig races (grandpa's favorite), Lil' Farmers play yard, a hay ride, Witch Mountain Slide, the Flying Farmers ride and the boys took a spin on the Country Road Rally. We ate a great lunch of pulled pork sandwiches, drank fresh squeezed lemonaide (to try and stay cool in the 95 degree weather), and ate fresh, true-live kettle popcorn. Dax got to pick his very own pumpkin from a huge pumpkin patch.

A little history about this farm is that it is family owned and sits on over 300 acres. They do major events like this "Pumpkin and Chili Party" all year long and it is pretty much a place of Arizona Tourism. Well, as most farms tend to be, things are old and antiqued. In fact, the carousel the kids rode on was built in 1912 and parents weren't even allowed to sit on the horses because they were too heavy. Come to find out, this was the case of most the rides...no parents. Well, from afar, Dax saw the flying airplanes, exactly like the rockets at Disneyland. There was the joy stick that you pull back and forth to make the airplane go up and down while the ride went round and round. Dax wanted to go so bad, but no parents were allowed. I could barely watch as Austin strapped my baby in the pilot's seat and showed him how to "fly" the plane. The ride started and Dax went straight up. He smiled and waved each time he went by without ever loosing his grin. The ride was probably 5 minutes too long because about half way through you couldn't hear any of the kids yelling or waving to their parents and they all looked a little dizzy...Dax especially. We thought the pulled pork sandwich was going to be coming up for sure, but he was a trooper and kept everything down and even though he had no expression on his face when the ride finally got through, when we asked if he had fun, he said "yeah!". He is such a little dare devil---and it freaks me out!

I had enough of my share of petting zoo's so when the boys headed over to feed the goats I had to laugh at how friendly, and hungry, these goats were!

We had a great time. Thanks grandma and grandpa Mac for joining us on our adventure!!

Lion, Tigers and ...Penguins...oh my!!

For the time being, Dax doesn't say a whole lot that makes sense---but we'll get to that. Even though he may not have an overwhelming vocabulary, he's always been really really good at portraying what he wants and what he's trying to say. It's so funny to see the way his little imagination works and what he comes up with to show us what he means. His imitations are by far the most creative when it comes to animals. I had to capture some of my favorites....

Fish Face
Lions, Tigers, Bears, Monsters...anything that goes " roaaaaaaaar!"

Elephant

The verdict's still out on this one...I don't know? A Stinkbug? He always demonstrates when we're going through the animals so it must be something

And my person favorite---the penguin. Dax loves looking at the cover of his DVD's. He doesn't do so much looking anymore as he does taking the DVD out of the box, opening the DVD player, putting in the DVD and bringing me the remote (this guy is smart!), but oh well. One day he was doing something so funny and I was laughing at him and asking what on earth that was. He brought me the Madagascar DVD and pointed at the penguins at the bottom, and this is clearly what he was imitating

It makes me laugh every time he is being creative and funny. I'm thinking this may not be the case for too much longer. Remember how I said he didn't say a whole lot that made sense? He has a small vocabulary of about 20 words I would say. The last few days have been a total transformation. He has been busting out with new word after new word that he has never said before taking me by complete surprise. They say kids start talking over night, but I really didn't imagine hearing 4 or 5 new words a day! It's amazing. I've been writing them down after he said 3 or so because I knew this was the start of something. These our are last few days in a nutshell, plus Dax's new words...

Mom and Dax and the supermarket (don't make fun that I call it a supermarket and not a grocery store). Dax: "I wanna walk" How can you NOT get him out of the cart when he actually says the word "walk"? Note to self: Next time Dax asks to walk in the supermarket, nicely say no thank you. 1st new word

Mom making eggs for breakfast. Dax: "An egg" 2nd new word

Dax coming down the hall with a soccer ball. Dax "I kicking....mummble mummble mummble...ball" 3rd new word

Mom reading Dax a Little Critters book. Dax "A mouse" 4th new word

Mom cooking dinner while listening to the radio. Dax coming over to me with his hands up "Dance" 5th new word

Mom taking Dax to bed telling him to say Bye to his toys. Dax: "Ni-night" 6th new word

Dax coming to get my hand to go "see". Then he says "vroooooom, wall" and proceeds to drive his car on the wall. (Note to Dax: Congrats on the new word bud, but let's not drive our cars on the wall) 7th new word

Dax trying to get into a hutch where I keep some dishes. The door wasn't opening so great so what does he do any say? "Knock knock" 8th new word

Learning how to can salsa at a friends house while holding Dax who is eating a chip and trying to stay focused and in deep conversation about how to "blanch" a tomato. No, Dax didn't say blanch (that's my new word), he says "neck" when he breaks the chip into my neck and laughs. Nice. 9th new word

I can hear the chatter box coming down the hall......why is it so much fun when they start talking? Just kidding! I love it and I know if will be a whole new world from here on out.

Halloween Party Mix

Those nights twice a week when Austin is at school can get long and a little boring. I try to think of fun things that Dax and I can do together and make the time go by fast. So, tonight Dax and I had our first "cooking" session today, and I use the term cooking very loosely (you'll see why). I pulled a chair up to our island, got out my biggest Halloween bowl and let him do ALL the work. I simply supervised. No messes, no clean up, and no yucky hands. You guys have to try Dax's 1st Annual Halloween Party Mix! This is sure to be a fun tradition in our house each year. This is how it all went down...

4 cups Lucky Charms

1 bag Halloween Plain M&M's

1 bag Candy Corn

2 cups Carmel popcorn (don't tell...I used Fiddle Faddle---remember my thing about no messes?)

1 cup small pretzels

and vuaaaalaaaa! You've got yourself the yummiest snack that you didn't even have to make!

I half adapted, half created this little mix in my head. Dax loved it and it was so fun to do with him. He really couldn't mess anything up by pouring a bag into a bowl and I got a big mixing spoon out for him to stir it all together. What's even better about this mix is you can substitute the Halloween candy for any assorted festive candy and it works all year long I've decided. This was one treat that was definitely kid tested and mother approved!! I couldn't quite get Dax away from the mix! Who am I kidding? Let's be fair. I was the one who couldn't get away from the bowl...I am eating for two here! Happy Halloween!