7/09/2009

Brothers

Brothers. Brothers? Really? Are we sure? Some days I don’t really know.

Look at them? They are so completely different. Wyatt’s hair is verging on white and is bone straight. Dax’s hair is just likes Austin’s. It has curl, it’s coarse and it’s slowly getting shades and shades darker as he gets older. Dax has hazel eyes. Wyatt has blue. They don’t even look like they have the same mama, let alone parents. Dax is so dark and Wyatt is so fair. Dax is skinny and musclely. Wyatt is plumper and heftier (which is not a good thing for Dax when Wyatt figures out he has this advantage over his brother). Dax is right handed, and from what we can tell, Wyatt will probably be left. Wyatt is a people person. He’s social and happy to tell his stories with any stranger. He’ll let you hold him and gives hugs and kisses to anyone. Dax on the other hand reserves hugs and kisses for those special people he knows really well. He’s kinda a loner. Not in a bad way, but in the way that he doesn’t need the company of others to have fun or to be entertained. He’s happy playing all by himself.

In some aspects, they couldn’t be on more different ends of the spectrum.

And yet, in other aspects they are two peas in a pod.

They have the same twinkle in their eye. This adorable, mischievous twinkle that makes my heart melt. They both have a tiny bit of in-toeing, that they’ll most likely grow out of, but it makes them the fastest, swiftest runners, and they look completely the same when they take off across the yard their little legs going a mile a minute. I wish mine could still do that. They make the same expressions. Their “surprised face” is identical with their big eyes and “o” shaped mouth. It’s one of my most favorite expressions they make. They have the same laugh, and when you get them laughing at the same time, you can’t help but laugh at them laughing. They like the same food. I think they secretly communicate at the dinner table and occasionally veto the dinner I’ve made on the same night just so I will make them hot dogs instead. They have the same stubborn, self sufficient, I-can-do-it-myself, attitude. I wonder where they got that?

I love how different they are and I love how similar they are. I love that they are individuals and I love that they are cookie-cutters of one another. I love that they are my boys. I love that I love them.

And I love that they love each other.


Just like brothers should.

12 comments:

Tasha said...

So cute. As I was looking at their pictures before I even read the post I thought "It is funny how the two look so different and yet have a similar sense at the same time." and then I read your post. Tanner and Brayden are a lot like this too. In different ways, but they are both so different and so the same too. I sure love little boys. I never knew how much until I got the 3 that I have. Sometimes I want a girl so bad, and then others I really really hope I just have a family of little boys. Who would have ever guessed that about me? Not me. I love that we both have little boys that we can cheer each other on with too! Yours are seriously so cute.

Karmann said...

WHat a sweet post!! They are so different but yet so alike! I love that about family!!! I am so glad that you are back! I have missed you! I am glad you had such an awesome time in California! I love the family shots! Definitly ones that will be for the memory books! I love that you love your boys so much! It seriously makes me smile from ear to ear! Love ya!

Steph @ somewhatsimple said...

Hey Bryn- I found your blog through Tasha's and I just have to say your boys are adorable! Send me your email so I can invite you to my blog! I would love to keep in better touch with you!
-Stephanie (Bremer) Dulgarian
stephd757@yahoo.com

Unknown said...

I sure LOVE all your fun posts you put together. It looks like you guys had so much fun camping on the beach and I love the theme "Pirates." It's funny to see this post about brothers because right now my boys sort of seem the same way. Robby has hair that is darkening as he gets older, dark skin while Eli has white blond hair and fair skin. It will be interesting to see how they change as they grow older.

By the way, now that you are back in town I would love to meet up at the pool again. What day??

Becca said...

look at those boys! I love how stinkin adorable they are! I hope I get to raise a few brothers some day!!!

Jamie C. said...

I think it is so cute that your boys have different looks! They are both Adorable though! Look at Wyatt's sun kissed cheeks! Love them. That was such a cute post to read. I loved it and wish I could see them and you right now!

The Scott's said...

Hey! I just found you through Hayley. Your boys are so stinkin' cute. I love how they look so different. I love having three boys and seeing each one of them differently. We miss seeing you guys and the ward. It's fun to peek in on you. Looks like you guys have been having lots of fun. How did you leave your boys for the cruise?! We really want to go someday when I can get up the guts to leave them that long! Your family is adorable - take care! Love ya, Rachelle

Lindsay said...

You are such a good writer. And photographer! Seriously! I have the niftiest camera, but I'm not good at using it yet. It looks like you have it all figured out! So cute!

Anonymous said...

What a fabulous post! I love the photos of the boys. They are just beautiful.

katie said...

They are DARN cute brothers. I am missing you Sister Primary Pres-CONGRATS!!!! Bridget told me. You will be FABULOUS. I wish my kids could be in your primary!

nicole said...

Those boys are night and day but just like the sun and moon, they cross paths here and there and complement each other perfectly. So cute.

Becky said...

Yin and yang! Can't wait to meet these boys!